The pain and anguish that comes from looking at pornography while being entrenched in Mormonism could have destroyed my teenage years.I’m not sure why it didn’t, maybe just because humans are at times surprisingly resilient.

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I pray David, that you get and understand grace, and that it will fill your life, and that grace of God will push away fear and all barriers of sin, and it will lead to righteousness and you’ll be free. Dear Florin, just read comment, I live in Australia, I have a lot of gay friends, most of them have been the nicest people, I have sruggled with this question myself. I found a book and liked what I read, I found God when I was 5 years old. Love Sue David, I don’t believe in coincidences, I just looked at the dates of people’s comments, and all except yours are from 2011. I was married to a man who would masturbate and expose himself, and served a Mormon mission and other leadership positions.

I have always loved God and somewhere along the line the churches, have told that is wrong. I have been involved in every church there is and this is the only one that makes sense to me. If God made us in the image of him than he is responsible. His mother had died when he was 8 or 9, and his father withdrew in his grief for his 22 yr. At 16, my ex was exposing himself at his window, and masturbated obsessively.

I think it’s important not to punish yourself for it, or torment yourself.

I think the devil will like us to focus and consume ourselves over this.

I couldn’t agree more with what was said by Kerri, the solution is to remove the church, be real, face the issue with a rational mind. To notice how something seemingly innocent has crippled your life, and then to go forward honestly trying to make it better is a huge part of life.

greater healing will come through that then it ever will talking to a man in an office who is likely viewing pornography himself but making sure you feel like trash for doing so. But the realization of sin is not about making you feel like trash. The thing is, to admit the truth and go against it is painful, bu that doesn’t mean the truth should be abandoned.Salvation cannot be achieved by one’s works, how well or bad someone does. Florin It might be a beginning to accept yourself as a sexual human being, instead of judging yourself.And even though at times we fail, we come short, God can forgive us, and we shouldn’t loose hope. But Grace now leads to righteousness/holiness and results in eternal life. Chemical castration can cause cancer, and I don’t think you deserve that.This masturbation is really wrecking my life and i cant stop it, so hopefully chemical castration will work for me.Regular castration is an option too, look into it, research it.Penectomy is not out of the question if it is necessary.