I love feedback, as long as you’re not a dick about. I assume that I should actually be TRYING to write a quality message because the content of the message is actually going to be read and weighed in the decision process of whether or not she will be responding back to me. Women, you should absolutely only respond to guys you find attractive, but beware of ANY guy who won’t even spend 5 minutes to read your profile and send you a personalized message.It COULD be a tell-tale sign of things to come in the relationship.

Der Winterschlaf hat ein Ende, endlich gibt es wieder neue Alben.

Die spannendsten Veröffentlichungen der Woche findet ihr wie immer hier.

If you are able to convey your humor in writing (LIKE ME), then by all means, go for it, but it’s probably safe to say since she’s never met you, conveying funny in messages may be difficult.

Be literate Ironic coming from me, since I don’t proof read or edit my blog.

Mentioning shared interest helps create the buy in, she needs to relate to you. I once dressed up as Luke Skywalker for 6 months straight, prior to the release of the Star Wars: Episode III Revenge of the Sith!

” Objective 3: Start a conversation The goal is for her to respond back to you right?

But believe it or not I actually re-read my messages many times, checking for spelling and grammatical errors.

Here are a few screen shots of a few of the last messages I sent out. And if it doesn’t, that’s fine, I get it, the attractive guy who just writes “hey” will get a response, only because he’s attractive.

Because if they actually thought that the women they were sending the messages to knew that these were generic messages, they wouldn’t be sending them right?

OR do you think these guys just don’t give a fuck and actually want to attract the type of woman that also doesn’t give a fuck that they didn’t actually read your profile? Like next time a guy sends you a super generic message on online dating you respond with nothing else except a link to this post, letting them know, that you know, his message was a piece shit.

I need this, no, WE need this to be a PSA for guys of the internet who are doing online dating, on how to send a first message.