We all need time to heal and don't want to plunge blindly into the rebound relationship. But extreme discomfort, acting out, and outright interference may signal issues just beneath the surface. We would be wise to observe their reactions, heed their reasoned warnings, and consider their hesitation. If you each have children at different stages -- for example, your kids are in elementary school and his are in college -- anticipate some potential problems if you're hoping for a long-term relationship.While you may have help that frees you up for the occasional vacation, dating with kids at different ages and stages can pose logistical and financial challenges, much like age-stage differences in the couple itself. Do listen if he says he isn't interested in helping to parent your kids, he's tired of you only being available for a weekend relationship, or he can't afford to pick up the financial slack for a single mother with children. So do Johnnie and Janie, Fido and Tabby, not to mention the hamsters, Mutt and Jeff.

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what with climbing in and out of the divorce dating pool for years.

In case you're wondering, one divorced dad swept me off my feet (then dropped me over a ledge).

Another captured my heart (and still holds it, most tenderly).

And that's despite the fact that you're working two jobs already, and he may be working two jobs of his own. The neighbors like him, too, and he and his ex seem very friendly.

When a man clearly indicates what is and isn't a deal breaker, we owe him the respect of honoring his choices. But something in your gut tells you he's too good to be true.

One afternoon I had been on the beach since after the morning general session, but I had not heard from my boyfriend all day.