When you’re online dating, the first thing you see after the person’s photo is their username.Choosing a username might seem like a throwaway task, but it’s way more important than you think.While a lot of the wild girls and extroverts seem to be getting all the press, there are some amazing women who feel more energized staying home with a good book than hitting the bars. Let him know this is your bag by making sure your username points him in the right direction: Ravishing Reader, Shyn Sexy, Not ACrazy Cat Lady, Siren Of Solitude, Crafty Cutie, or Quirky Queen.

For more interesting choices, combine the words to two of your likes (the more different the better) together to give even more info.

If you just want to see what weird, wild, and wacky name you could possibly fit under, try out the super fun name generators at Spinxo.com, Thing Names.com, and Fantasy Name

It’s the first impression people will have of you, and it greatly affects how they view you.

A person named Jim is going to have a different impression of you than someone named Wolfgang.

Whatever it is, being outdoors and/or keeping fit is important to you. For the yogi/spinner, try Stretch NCycle, Spin2Fit, or Downward Digging It. In the meantime, you want to make sure your match is into the same things you are.

If you’re a hardcore athlete, try Live2Run, Bike Swim Run, or Phitness Phreak. Of course, you’ll mention it in the profile, but take this opportunity to show how creative you are (and how specific your references can be.) Ygritte And Go, Gamr Grl, Tiny Trekkie, Mendelivelife, Arwen Star, and STEMIAM might be some good options. You follow the latest trends, can spot a Chinatown-fake Gucci a mile away, and always have the right shoes for the right occasion.

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What makes a man think of you as marriage material.

Obviously, these are only a sampling of archetypes of people.

Whatever your passion, try and offer it up in your username.

The most expensive item in your closet is a limited edition Tom Brady jersey. You need to have someone at your side who definitely knows this is your bag, baby.