A lot of misery is avoided with a respectful ending and opportunity to start again with someone else after a period of sincere efforts to fix a love relationship.

The point is, a triangle happens when two married (or simply committed people) don’t fix their marriage.

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In some instances he ‘knows’ his wife is cheating on him and looks the other way.

In other instances his defenses are so thick he doesn’t read the signs at least consciously.

He may start thinking about asking her to leave her husband. He could be thrown out of the triangle and the married couple could end up fixing their relationship, this could happen.

The ‘other man’ gets painfully left out, not yet knowing that is the best thing that could happen to him.

She can go back to her husband when we’re done making love, right? The problem comes in when over time an attachment forms between the married woman and her ‘other man.’ Now she is growing used to the arrangement and has convinced herself that the triangle makes her disappointing marriage tolerable.

If the ‘other man’ gets attached he will inevitably at some point start needing more from the married woman. My heart goes out to him more than any one else in this arrangement because he is usually the one who gets disturbed first and has more to lose.

I’m just enjoying life so much at the moment that I don’t get here as often as I used to.

I hope everyone out there is well and you all have a very safe and happy New Year!

I know the story books tell us that it’s better to stay together.