Widowers Will Stay in Relationships with Women They Don't Love Because widowers have a strong desire to be in a relationship, they will get serious with women they don't really love.Most widowers are just happy to have a woman in their life again.In order to ensure equal numbers of men and women at our events, everyone must register in advance.

Finally, I gave in to the feelings and signed up with an online dating site and went on my first widower date a few weeks later. We fell in love and were married 15 months after Krista died. And while there's nothing wrong with dating months or weeks after a spouse dies, most widowers who start dating again are still grieving the loss of their spouse.

(As I write this, we're a month shy of celebrating our eighth anniversary.)It wasn't until after I remarried and started researching how men grieve that I realized my desire to date again so soon after Krista's death was natural. They're not emotionally ready to make long-term or serious commitments to the women they're dating.

When it comes to men, there are five things you need to know about them that affects their behavior after they've lost a spouse.1.

Widowers Have an Internal Need for Relationships A few weeks after my late wife, Krista, and I were married, we had dinner with her grandmother, a widow.

Often, their loneliness is so acute that they'll attach themselves to the first person who shows the slightest interest in them.

Having someone who will hold them and tell them how much they're needed or loved will overcome the nagging feeling in the back of their mind that the relationship isn't right—at least for a while.

It also contains over a dozen real life stories from women who have gone down the same road you’re traveling.

It’s the perfect book to help you decide if the man you’re seeing is ready for a new relationship—and whether or not dating a widower is right for you. It doesn't matter how long they were married, how their wife died, or how long it's been since their wife passed on—widowers act, think, and grieve like men. When you think of widowers as men, you can better understand the motivations and reasons behind their actions and decide for yourself whether he's ready to move on and start a new life with you, or simply looking to fill the hole in his heart or for someone to warm his bed at night.

In the months following her death, I found myself wanting to date again. I thought there was something wrong with me; perhaps I was angry at Krista about taking her own life, and as a result, I was trying to get even with her.