I understand the topic is awkward and her parents and I have had a strained relationship.

But she and I are planning to move in together and will be getting engaged, so it’s only a matter of time before they find out.

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They’ve been a part of their family way before you. It’s a strange concept to think that if you have to work on the weekend when they leave town, your brother or sister will be there in your place.

If you feel like you can handle this then God bless you.

We've discussed breaking the news to them thousands of times, and even sought professional advice.

Each rehearsal scenario inevitably ends with us having to defend our relationship, something we both don’t feel is necessary.

You want to be your own person without being seen as a packaged deal.

Every pair of siblings has a different relationship, and a different way of going about things like this. She invited me to a few social events when she arrived and soon we became physically intimate. For the first couple of years I was in a sad, isolated, and withdrawn state. My wife’s younger sister moved to my city to begin her medical residency more than two years ago.She's going to marry some other guy and she doesn't want you around her husband. Send questions for Cecil Adams to: Posting, or seeking, any identifying personal information, real or fake, how dating works result in a ban without a prior warning. Family shouldn’t be interrupted by boyfriends, girlfriends or stupid fights, but this is a darn awkward situation if you ask me.