Cybersex hook ups
I strongly disagree with people who claim that cybersex is "unhealthy" or "harmful".For married people, yes, of course it's a question of fidelity. If you meet the person face-to-face, the STD dangers rise - but that isn't cybersex anymore then, is it?
Cybersex is pretty much the same thing as masturbation (which is normal, and healthy) except that it's slightly more fulfilling.
It's just masturbation with fantasy enhancement from another person (and all men fantasize while they're masturbating anyway).
Marriage counselors are now recognizing the importance of including issues of cybersex during marriage counseling.
One of the relevant issues being considered is, ‘does cybersex represent infidelity? You are deepening the misunderstanding by using cyber or cybering instead of cybersex.
There are a lot of problems in todays society including this but I do think it's a healthy alternative to shoring around your local bar.
As a recovering sex addict, I can attest to the sad reality that cybersex is not just "good dirty fun." It is highly addictive, grossly underestimated, and progressively fatal.And yet, I've never experienced "personal neglect" nor "depression" as a result of this.Cybersex can be practiced in moderation just like alcohol when it comes to "drinking socially" and safely.A published paper in JAMA highlighted this concern noting that online seekers were more likely to have had a previous STD than offline clients."The internet clearly has a role in solicitation of risky sex partners". Clues that one may have a problem with cybersex addiction include, routinely spending significant amounts of time in chat rooms with the sole purpose of finding cybersex, hiding on-line chatting from their significant other, feeling guilt or shame about online use , and masturbating while online.Cybersex in moderation is a perfectly fulfilling, healthy and a safe lifestyle if you're single and you don't intend on meeting the people you cyber with -- which is the case with very many people who go to cybersex chatrooms.