If you have good rapport with your child, have regular talks with them and they respect you, then it is important that you get their approval.

Check his credentials: If you have a toddler or baby and the guy is okay with dating you, then this next step is important.

It is not your place to discipline an unruly child either, check his/her mom on that, and if it gets too much – call it a day and leave.

Take it slow and be yourself, help out when you can, or when you’re asked, and the number one thing is to be good to their mom.

Being a boyfriend who openly bombs on mom in front of the kids or being that guy breaking mom’s heart will forever lock you into asshole mode in their minds and you will never get over it.

Ladies listen, this man did not get used to a kid screaming like you did, he was not kept up nights tending to the crying and projectile poop, he isn’t seasoned in this.

Above all else, including your want for a mate is your child’s safety.

I have answers on this page, but if you’re really desperate?

First of all, before you scroll to the replies to ask me a question….(I get over 11,000 queries for, “Why won’t she text me back,” Per month). I get a lot of texting questions like, “How do I text her so that she replies? ”There are some common rules when texting, or utilizing social media. You have to cater to both on some level, especially if the child is a female herself.Engage the child in conversation when he/she’s around but make it natural conversation, not forced conversation.Ask your Teen: If you have a teenager it is very important that you get their approval after an introduction or two is made with your potential lover.If your kid has daddy issues, as in wanting you to stay alone in hopes of your ex coming back into your life – then go ahead and skip the introduction to the new guy.It’s very obvious when we do this and kids read that stuff immediately.